Hey lost....im glad you've been well in spite of the recent feelings. April 2013 my H said "maybe we shouldnt be together" and went back to where he lives. May 2013 was our 4th anniversary. I sent him a card for the day.....the day of I got a text "happy anniversary". No call....nothing else. So I guess that was mym first anniversary alone. In April he had already told me he wouldnt be making a trip back for it in May....so I purposely made plans on that day to keep my mind off of it and we zip lining. No time for thinking about your marriage issues when you're attached to a rope hoping you are still alive at the end lol.
I was hoping for the best at that time so him not bei g there that day wasnt as hurtful as it could have been.....I really felt my M issues would turn around...but here I am 9 months later and he is still gone. In 3 months it will be May again....crazy how time flies....and how life changes.
I say if you can, find something to do on that day that makes you feel good..... Nice to see you posting, keep us updated on your progress!
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
