Oh and pay.

He pays the mortgage in lieu of any child support, and he has the HSA that I pay the kids' medical expenses from.

It really is all about money, that's what I think.


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.