Here I Am Again!

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What I found interesting is that you mentioned that an EA is generally not acknowledged in Malaysia or in Chinese culture. E has told me that an EA is something she doesn't believe in. she grew up in Central Europe.

Yeah. I do get blank stares whenever I speak of EA, even to those who speaks english. I have a tougher time translating it into my native tongue.
But it doesn't mean it's less painful than a PA.

I think my XW knows what I meant. I asked if our roles are reversed, how would she feels about it. I got a silence. Coming from someone who likes to be right all the time and argues her way through everything, that means a lot.

Thank you for your continued reading of my posts. Don't know how mine could contribute anything to your situation.