And just a note, that was the first time he has use the word Divorce. Usually he calls it "the paper work" he has never used the word in this process, not even during BD, until this response. Dont know what that means....just making a note of it.


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope