That's funny about your H baking a cake . . . around Christmas my H (who HATES crafts and refuses to step into a Michael's store) decided to do some crafts with the kids - they decorated stockings to hang in his apartment. I guess it was nice that he did that with the kids, but I thought, "wow, he really has no idea what to do with them, and has to copy what I do with them even if he hates it." Maybe I am just mean.
I am sooooooooooo glad you did not text your H!! Good for you for deleting it.
And that is great that you had the opportunity to see that there is life after D, if things don't work out with your H. I know you still want your H, but I think it's really important to see that there are other options. That not being with him won't actually be the end of the world. I think it removes the desperation aspect and helps us to think more clearly about what we want and need.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
