Keep it Simple. Think of three things you can do for the visit.
Breathe. Speak calmly in a grown up, soothing voice. Don't REACT--take your time no matter how much he wants it quick and easy. This is important stuff and requires your thought, your attorney's thoughts, your friends' thoughts... Nothing needs decided today.
Lots of love to you. You got his.
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
