I hear you man, she is really leaving her past behind, like she was so miserable with me, she even left her journals at home, everything related to her past with me, is all that she has left...
WAS aren't happy in the M so they leave.
Originally Posted By: ye21
I am really bitting my tongue not to text her telling her how much I hate her, and how much I hate the way she is doing things.
Yes, do STFU. No text, No talk, Nothing. You are not in the right frame of mind to do anything about your M. Not yet. GAL instead.
Originally Posted By: ye21
All of you at least got a chance to work things out, I couldn't even seat with her and talk, and I feel all her family now hates me, her brother cancel me on facebook...her mom hasn't even call me to ask nothing... She just pressed the delete button of her life and that's how I feel like being absolutely deleted of her life!!
I don't think you've read other people's post! May I suggest you try? You will have some perspective from reading other poster's situation. Our situation aren't too dissimilar to yours.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
Ok ok I am not texting. Its hard to read other post when all I see its people with kids...she doesnt move out....its kind of a different story this one
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
Ok ok I am not texting. Its hard to read other post when all I see its people with kids...she doesnt move out....its kind of a different story this one
Our stories begins with our WAS wanting out of our M. What is so different between yours and ours?
Does it matter that some of us have kids? Does it matter some WAS does not move out?
Stop arguing and start reading!
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
I understand what you are going through. It surely is tough.
Most of us goes through the motions very early on. You'll find them mostly in the 1st or 2nd threads.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet
She forgot one dress and also a purse that my sister bought for her for christmas 2 years ago. should I contact her about it?
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
What little steps should I follow?? I feel so lost....
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
This is been the hardest time of all, maybe because I now can see that she is definetly gone forever? Please any advice? I need you guys
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
First of all, did she take anything that you didn't want her to? If so, write it down and then tell her that she had no right to come in and just take what SHE wanted since the items belonged to you or both of you.
Second, is it possible for you to get a therapist or counselor for support? You need to get yourself strong first.
Just to let you know, my W packed up and left in the beginning of my situation, AND took my kids. It wasn't until I started being more of a man that she started to come back. It took her 3 years to even talk to me.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
Hey MrBond I go to therapy on wednesdays, the biggest issue that I am dealing with is I am very confused. when I come to this forum or re read the book basically I feel that I shouldnt give up...the problem is when I talk to other people...most of them tell me to move on and forget about all this. I had read your story and its really beautiful to see that everything worked out, but I have fear when I think....wait 3 years?? Could it be just an obsession? how can I wait 3 years for a person? What warranty do I have that things will work out? I feel its harder to wait when you have no kids because basically I havent build the family I wanted to..
The items she took are stupid ones, a few dishes here and there and a picture from the living room, nothing really important but the married certificate, thats the most impoetant thing she took and I dont really know why she took it..... any input about this married certificate?
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
