Hi I'm in the midst of a divorce I do not want. In October my husband of 8 years came to me and said he wasn't happy and wanted out. He stated he has never loved me, doesn't love me and needs to be free to find the hope for happiness. No sign of an affair but I do wonder. I made the changes he want but on the 29th of December he said it was completely over. I filed for divorce the next week to protect myself and my children's financial interests. He wanted a dissilusionsment. We have 3 children - 6 months, 2 years and 6 years. I am hoping its a MLC. I just ordered the Divorce Busting book and left a message for a marriage coach. I am praying for a miracle and clarity and support. Every one tells me to let him go. Everyone including his family says we have no idea what he is thinking, he's an idiot and we are so sorry. It's not your fault. Please let me know what my next steps are. Oh yeah and he wants to remain best friends.
W-38 -H-42 M 8 T-11 CH-6 months,2 years and 6 years I filed-1/6/2014
W-38 H-42 T-11 M-8 C-6,2,6 months BD-Oct 1 2013 DFiled-Jan 6 2014 Went Dark - April 4, 2014
