B-, I suggest reading a book...The way of the superior man. It is a little ragged on the edges, but overall the book is solid. I am reading it now and to tell you the honest truth, I think of you when I read it and how you NEED to read it.
Just looking for it now. Is that the one by David Deida?
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014
