I dropped my son off at my ex's tonight. She wanted to talk so she invited me up. I was calm, happy and upbeat. She seemed upset as usual. It seems to me that she can only show vulnerability to me. She wasn't upset with me but other stuff, her mom her job etc. I went into the kitchen to throw something out and what do I see on the f*cking kitchen counter!! A damn flower card from mr. special or captain wonderful or whatever the f*ck his name is.
The one thing that kept me from losing it was this guy has handwriting like a girl and he sounds like a girl. What kind of guy does this.... Xoxoxoxoxoxoxo Now I know my ex is going crazy. She was never one for this type of affection but she's eating it up now.
Ok. I'm done ranting.
Maybe I'm not....
I have primary custody of our son. Not legally but it's supposed to be 50/50 but I've had him since Sunday. Am I the only guy here who thinks it's weird that the mother spends less time with her child than the father? If I didnt say I was going out tomorrow id have him tomorrow as well. I know I have the vehicle and I know it's extra difficult to get him to daycare without a vehicle but still. I actually don't mind because I get awesome bonding time with him, but it makes me so sad and I feel guilty that she doesn't spend more time with him.
All I know is this s*cks.
Me-35 Com law-28 S-3 T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu 1st bu- 2/2012 Rec-4/2013 2nd bu-10/2013 IC-2 yrs(anger issues) MC- 5 mnths-fail OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14 New OM ~10/4/14
