Here I Am Again!

[Missmygirl]

Paul, my wife doesn't go out a lot. Maybe once every couple of months now. At one point, it was a weekly thing. The problem is that she will head out the door and not say anything about where she's headed. It's always "out". She will say she's going out with the girls, but won't say when she's planning on being back. She also thinks it's ok to just not come home until the next morning. No call. No text. Nothing. It's like having a rebellious teenager to deal with.

I have been thinking a lot about whether or not I want to put up with stuff like this.

I see you wrote that your wife "needs to find herself." I asked my wife what she wants. She told me, "to be happy." E says she's not happy. I ask her if leaving will make her happy. She says, "I don't know." She really doesn't seem to know what she wants. She does seem to know what she DOESN'T want... more of the same life with me!