I'll have to look that one up Melissa. I am still reading your threads when I get a chance. I really appreciate your openness with your sitch and I always seem to have aha moments with your posts and the replies to you. I feel like I was given a gift that BD happened when H was still not quite so sure it was what he wanted. As awful as that weekend was, I am glad that it happened because it was a wake up call for both of us. And I learned more about how to be a better me in these past 3 months then in my entire (almost) 39 years. I learned how to break bad patterns. I learned how to see different perspectives. And most of all I learned how to let go of things that are out of my hands. It is all still a work in progress, though. But at least now I know where I was going wrong and I feel like I have some tools to help future situations.
40s 2teens M14Y BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14 BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14 EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15 D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17
