Thanks, ladies...I know I can't control the way he reacts (wish I was magical!! Lol) this is just a totally new dynamic in my sitch: up until this point, he has been unbelievably kind and responds immediately to any contact. Now I have a legitimate concern and he's ignoring me.
He has a lot of guilt, so I'm pretty sure that's why he's gone out of his way to accommodate up to this point. It's strange to me that he showed up today when he said he wasn't going to, left an important piece of mail, and is now ignoring me. What is this?????
Let's keep in mind this is a 45 year old man, sleeping on a twin bed at his buddy's house, and working 18 hrs a day/6 or 7 days a week...Who wants that life?????
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5