Ok strange thing...I was out with my D 16 at a dentist appt I let her drive. The pain came. I have no idea why. My D saw that all was not right. I told her I was fine. She knew I was not. We agreed that I didn't feel my best and that I was not fine but I told her I would not discuss it. Later I told her that sometimes if I don't feel.my best I will say so and that we could both learn from it.
She said she knew what I was talking about and why. She has it too. I avoided getting into details. She respected that. I did tell her that sometimes it just comes to me...she understood.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14