Ok strange thing...I was out with my D 16 at a dentist appt I let her drive. The pain came. I have no idea why. My D saw that all was not right. I told her I was fine. She knew I was not. We agreed that I didn't feel my best and that I was not fine but I told her I would not discuss it. Later I told her that sometimes if I don't feel.my best I will say so and that we could both learn from it.

She said she knew what I was talking about and why. She has it too. I avoided getting into details. She respected that. I did tell her that sometimes it just comes to me...she understood.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14