Ugh! I am trying to do NC and he's making it impossible! I was out of the house today so I wouldn't see him when he came to get the tools and dog. All fine and dandy until he texts me that he won't be able to come by this morning because he's running late, but he would stop by tomorrow, if that's okay.

I waited a half hour and replied "sure".

I get home, and he had, indeed, come by today and left a bill on the counter that I cannot afford to pay. (He encouraged me to quit my job and go back to school after he had already decided to leave me. But it's okay! Cuz he pulled money out of his 401k and gave it to me... Only that's not going to last as long as he thinks it is.)

So I had to email him to ask about the bill. GAH!!!!!!! He's not letting me detach!!! I was doing so well!!!


Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5