Before I send this, I had been thinking over night about this one line:
I do not want a divorce, but will not stand in your way.

While the W is probably heading in this direction. Divorce has not been discussed, nor has paperwork been sent to solicitors.
Therefore should this subject be brought up by me? Should the sentence be more:
I do not want to split the assets, but will not stand in you way.
?????????

Again, trying to think more sensible rather than emotional.

ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.