W is going to a therapist that she really likes. I have approached W several times on wanting more intimacy and sex in our relationship. W says that she is content with the way things are...
With that being said, I've asked her to talk to her therapists about how we or I can generate more sparks like it used to be (been five plus years since we have had any real intimacy). Her responses have been that she has and that I might not like the answers.
Not sure I want to go through the rest of my life in a non-intimate and sexless relationship... But I love my W very much.
I feel like I am at crossroads of trying to figure out what is important in a relationship. Is it that important to have intimacy or just companionship as we get older. I want to do everything that I can to get as much out of life and enjoy life as much as I can and do what I can to stay as young as I can.
Is that to much to ask?
I am trying to stay faithful, but it seems that W being content with the ways things are is causing complacency as well. I don't want to be taken for granted...
This is like a bad dream when it comes to this area in my relationship with my 2nd wife.
