So, when they say that they don’t want to hurt you, does it mean they love you? My H said it to our friends last year.
Ruby, you are way ahead of me in terms of love. I’m still straggling with the feelings of revenge for H. I don’t know if I can love him like that to let him go completely and wish him all the happiness. I have the moments when I feel that I truly wish H to be happy. And then I catch myself thinking that it is not going to happen for him because he lost the best thing he could even have.
Heather, you have a wonderful insight, as always. I had a dream last night, with H in it, again… I brought up an old feeling of being uncomfortable and jealous because if H’s certain behavior. So, I woke up with the thought that I don’t want H then way he is. I guess, I’m not ready to accept certain things, or maybe I need more work to do on myself.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
