It's Time to Sing a Brand New Song

[Mimi00]

I was finally able to get my named removed from our joint accounts today.

I have to give 2 bank documents to my H for it to be finalized.
I scanned the Docs and plan to email them to him.

I also plan for this to be our last real communication as there's nothing more to be said (our bank accounts were the last tie we had).

To my knowledge he has yet to file for dissolution (he never sent the petition to me to sign so it could be filed and the process could start; unless he was able to file alone, I do't think it has been filed)....so there's no need to talk again until the process starts.

Below is the email I plan to send, if any one is out there, Vet's or non-vets, I would love feed back on my letter.....if it's too wordy etc... I'm open to any help

"Good Afternoon,

As of today, my name has been removed from the joint checking and savings accounts. I no longer have access to either. Attached is a PDF file containing 3 pages; please print, date and sign (on line #1 of page 1 and 3 only [should have different account #’s at top]) and have the documents notarized. Then please physically mail them to me (at this address) so that I can return them to the bank and removal can be finalized.

Two weeks ago when I transferred $250 from the joint checking as repayment for the loan I gave you in July you asked for $100 to be returned, I complied. I also ended up returning the remaining $150 back the next day ($100 of it to the checking, $50 to the savings) as the accounts were both very low and you wouldn’t be getting paid again for several days. So the entire balance on the loan is still owed, please let me know how you plan to repay the $300.00 requested from the $600.00 loan and in what time frame.

On page 4 of the Petition for Dissolution it states that there are to be “no canceling, modifying, terminating, or allowing to lapse for nonpayment of premiums, any policies of health insurance, homeowner’s or renters insurance, or automobile insurance that provides coverage to either parties or of any policy of life insurance that names either parties” with out 14 days notice & written permission from me, or a court order. In spite of having this information in your possession you have cancelled health insurance and did not want to reinstate it at the same level of coverage solely for me. The only policy remaining that involves us both , to my knowledge, is the car insurance. I expect you will continue to cover that on my behalf until there is a court order that says differently, as you know I cannot afford to cover it on my own at this time.

Any further communication/exchange of documentation and information, please make through email or mail. Lastly, I ask that my emails concerning these matters remain private and not be forwarded/shared with any parties that are not directly involved in this process.

Thank you & have a good day,"