"Thanks for everyone's help so far. Unfortunately, my wife tonight told me she wants to go back to our original plan to separate."

Because you haven't changed. Start following what others are telling you.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER