RT that post Was amazing . I do that stuff in my head every day. Lmao
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
Listen, about the rings...as you know I tossed my wedding ring in the ocean last year ( ya...whatevs...wasn't always this zen). Sometimes I wear a gorgeous set H gave me that actually feels more like love...but that's not the point.
The point is I never ever wear them on my wedding finger cause that one is sacred. The fact W is speaks a lot to me without saying one word.
What sayeth you ?
Ty for your post. I know he cares. I know he loves me. But if he can't fix him, it's really a moo point ( remember Joey in " friends"? OMG that made me laugh)
Hmmmmm???? I don't know what I sayeth. I thinketh you are saying that because W is wearing a plain old ring on her wedding finger that it's a negative or bad sign? Sorry Ruby... I'm not getting what you are trying to tell me. HELP!
But otherwise... Heeeeeeeeey! I have been gone a week and no one sent a search party. What if I had won the lottery? Seriously though, busy with school and I live in the south... ice-pocolypse, the past few days.
My W was stuck out of town because of the weather so I haven't seen her in what? a week? She comes home tomorrow and I am here for one night then Sat. I am traveling over night without W to go to her BFF's (also my super friend) birthday party. I have reservations... it's just awkward. But I can't make their issues, my issues. So I am off to celebrate my friend. (ringing the GAL bell)
The day I get home W leaves for ANOTHER week. Hopefully this will be the last long trip for a while! Somebody's gotta work on this M sooner or later!
We talk and text everyday she's away. I let her chase me most of the time. (180) But I also like to validate her every couple of days with a random "missing you" or some xoxo's.
I'm ready for her to be at home though. I miss her terribly. BUT... I am ok. It seems I learned to be alone and I'm good at it. It's a different dynamic for both of us this time around. We don't contact because we think we are supposed to, and we don't stay on the phone longer that we want to. I feel a sense that we are "here" for each other, but we are missing that messy little co-dependent factor to our communication when she is away now. It just feels better.
And now... my friend is turning 50. Any ideas on absolute, total, hilarious gifts or pranks for 50????? We are super close so ANYthing goes!
Me(F):40 WAW:44 T:13yrs M:9yrs BD:2/12 (I saw a text) ILYBINILWY: 5/12 PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11) S:2/13 Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13 W moves home to R: 10/13
A search party is officially on now!!! I have my miner's hat with the light switched on high beam alongside with Bug, Ruby, PS, Paul, AS & others marching forward in a semi-circle calling out "RT, come on out..you're sorely missed at the fire pit area."
Or...maybe...you're too busy making fireworks with W...
It's a different dynamic for both of us this time around. We don't contact because we think we are supposed to, and we don't stay on the phone longer that we want to. I feel a sense that we are "here" for each other, but we are missing that messy little co-dependent factor to our communication when she is away now. It just feels better.