It said basically that if you love someone and they don't love you back, it is ok.
It's OK in the respect that it doesn't define who you are. In other words, if you love them and they don't love you back, it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, it just means that it's the choice that that person is making right now. Maybe they'll choose to love you later, or maybe never. But regardless, you make the most of who you are and you keep moving forward.
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Part of the pain I have been feeling is based on the perception of not 'feeling worthy' of love from my spouse. Her actions, her lack of love back towards me, in no way affects the 'worthiness' of me.
Quite right! You're still early in your sitch, as the months stretch on you will come to embrace this thought more and more.
