Newbie needs help:husband left Saturday

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Just updating: I have an appointment with a lawyer on Tuesday. It is really sad to me, because on top of being the only one invested in our marriage emotionally, I also have more to lose financially, and ours is a no-fault divorce state, so the more I read up on it, the more I see what a bad position I am in. But I guess it is good for me to get all the information and deal with it. Thanks for the suggestions. Husband continues to be frustrating: After taking the kids to Dave and Busters (arcade place) on their day off of school together with the other woman, he took me aside to tell me that he told her to ride in the back seat with the kids, so that it was clear she wasn't just replacing me (we had had a discussion of how he just "changed the face on the woman doll"). As if that would help, when the kids were sleeping overnight together with her within 6 weeks of him moving out of our house.