Yes Wonka, the ball is in her court. If she now signs the papers, she agrees still on her choice in the splitting of assets ( I haven't fought her on anything, just the value of the houses, which the bank valued for me) and all she needs to do, is not sign the paperwork to stop the assets being split. While I have made mistakes along this track with relation to the DB principles not being done as well as I could have/should have, I certainly didn't make any mistakes with regards to the actual separation, moving out and then the legal aspect of this sitch.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.