If your h is willing to help you get moved and you feel comfortable w/him being there, then by all means sign him up. It's free labor and I bet he'll have you moved in no time. Be sure to call and schedule your U-Haul today so that there is one available when you need it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
