Sounds like you have a perfect day to get a few things done and relax a bit.
Could it be that he sees a lot of himself in his D19? Could she be a lot like him in personality and he doesn't want her to make the same mistakes that he's made through the years?
You are strong and independent and you can do whatever you set your mind to. Just remember that...because you are not a victim.
Enjoy your day!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
