Again, he apologized for hurting me and said that I had no idea what it does to him when he hurts me like this.
He loves you. W has said this type of stuff before. Tons of guilt from them. I think these are the driving force feelings for them to seek out their own purpose and "repair" themselves to feel whole. Not only his self-preservation... but his love for you.
Originally Posted By: kate's_place
RT? ON your thread I see about the lying and that is what precipitated this split. I thought that if he lied about something as trivial as he did, the big stuff would never see the light of day...no way to live my life.
But I like that you guys fought and the world is still turning...who knew
I agree. I don't intend at all to keep accepting such behavior. But I don't have expectations of perfection either... as early in the homecoming as we are. For now...(love that phrase!) the "good" or better yet, the progress is outweighing the "bad" or the set backs.
I'm feeling good about your decision though. I think it will help progress both you and H into the healthiest direction. (and ultimately back together.... )
Me(F):40 WAW:44 T:13yrs M:9yrs BD:2/12 (I saw a text) ILYBINILWY: 5/12 PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11) S:2/13 Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13 W moves home to R: 10/13
