Thanks for everyone's help so far. Unfortunately, my wife tonight told me she wants to go back to our original plan to separate. I'm pretty devastated about it right now but I know I'll pick myself up and go back to the beginning. I know this stuff helps so I'm confident I'll get back to where I want to be but it looks like I've got a tough few days ahead of me.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014