On that too, my wife told me today I knew what she was like when I married her and she's right. Unfortunately for her, she's asking me to be someone I'm not and she married me knowing what I was like too. I'm trying to keep an open mind about things but I'm also trying to understand who I am and what I enjoy as well as what my wife likes.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014