I am going to have to respectfully disagree with Fade on this one. (Sorry Fade!) I just don't think that you should take any negative action against OM professionally or personally. I am all for protecting yourself, but why stir that pot? If your family is your top concern, just keep on standing for our marriage and wait for you W to come back to her senses. She will.
Me:35 BF:36 Together 4.5 years lived together 2 years moved out 8-13 still "together" but not together. Confused. D11, D13 (from 1st marriage)