Do you really think that you sitting there and not doing anything is going to make anything change? Get up and get out. Right now STOP looking at the things you don't have, but LOOK at the things that YOU DO have.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
What is what I have now? Its awful to feel like this, because I have guilt of not thinking about how to fix our relationship all the time...
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
I am getting crazy just thinking about all this.... could it be that there is OM how could I find out??
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
"What is what I have now? Its awful to feel like this, because I have guilt of not thinking about how to fix our relationship all the time..."
That's why you have to GAL.
What do you have? You have yourself which isn't bad. There's ALWAYS someone else who is worse off than you. You know I've worked with children who are terminally ill who are willing to fight and laugh and not be beaten.
You're not even in that bad a shape yet you act worse than them.
"I am getting crazy just thinking about all this.... could it be that there is OM how could I find out??"
If you don't start to GAL, this will (and is) eat you alive. Don't let it. Be strong. It took my W and I 3 years before she started to soften up. YOU have to be strong. Be a man and not a baby.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
Well I am decided to GAL , it will be hard times here and there but I am gonna feel better about myself, this sunday I am having a date and so on I will ride my bike and do things for me, at the end God will take care of all this and show me the way...
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
I think I have to be patient with myself, I tried to force myself into dating this girl and I have the feeling she notices my mood... and now I feel bad again, I think the main thing to focus now its gonna have to be me, leaving single.
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
No one said GAL included going on a date with someone. Your W just left a week ago and you honestly think the best thing to do is to go out with someone else? Get real.
You're not being fair to the girl or you or your W. Stop using the girl for your own selfish needs.
Cancel the date and concentrate on just YOU.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
Mrbond I have the feeling that you and I are gonna end being really good friends. you are absolutelly right, I have to cancel that and focus on myself.
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
If I follow what DB says at least in the last email she didnt mention divorce again so thats a good sign!!
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
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