my wife left, but still lives with me #2/continued

[tough spot]

I learned a good thing today. I was feeling some pain at this situation and something popped up from a book I had read recently. It said basically that if you love someone and they don't love you back, it is ok.

Part of the pain I have been feeling is based on the perception of not 'feeling worthy' of love from my spouse. Her actions, her lack of love back towards me, in no way affects the 'worthiness' of me.