That's actually a good thing. She told you to "figure it out", so go ahead and come up with a plan with what to do. Be the leader in this case. If she doesn't like it, tell her that SHE told you to figure it out, so you did. Then tell her to back off.
Time to get your b@ll$ back from her back pocket.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.