Ok I'm full of it. Went to meet her for lunch, had a quick chat in the car and decided I can have lunch by myself. Took her to a hotel seeing as we were already on the road. I'm alright with it, mostly because I was the one who decided I wanted this.

I don't understand why a hotel though, why not her place? I wonder if it's because she wants her place to be some kind of sanctuary or if she's hiding something? I know, I know…mind reading. But still, isn't it weird?

I meet my C tomorrow, need to discuss this.

In your opinion, would you consider this as progress towards R even though we don't do anything else together?

Resentment occurs when we aren't doing what we need to care for ourselves, though we expect others to do it for us.