I think for you to start your four weeks on a text like that is a great parting gift/note. Right now you don't have an R problem, you have a wife-trapped-in-her-own-head problem.
Thanks!
Another step completed! Another step closer!
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.