Originally Posted By: artsy
Ok- POLL!

How many of you changed some stuff around the house after WAS left? I ordered new bedding and am going to paint the master ASAP. (This is not a manipulation tactic, as he truly may never see the bedroom again frown )

I also took down a few of our pics that were bothering me.

I'm finding it unhealthy to live in a house that was dedicated to our M when he isn't here any more. And he left EVERYTHING.

What have you all done??


yes! I changed some pictures in my room because they were upsetting me. I took down a wedding picture that hung on my side of the room. I also took down a picture she made for me on our first anniversary. I replaced them with pictures of my kids. I went to look at bedding last week, but didn't buy it yet.

She came into the room a couple of weeks ago and I know she noticed, but not much I can do about that. She rarely comes into the house if I am anywhere near here. No contact since Tuesday. I got new insurance cards.

I have to clean at the church tonight and will put them under her office door.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14