Rick, good question about not being wanted. Answer IDK yet. Still trying to understand why I stayed sinking when I appeared she just could not/would not be able to give me emotional support or much intamacy in our marriage. I was afraid to be alone I think. I am changing


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14