Thank you for the lovely post. It mean a lot to me. I've been working hard and it's nice that you noticed.
Keep on detaching. You're doing great. Keep your eyes focused on your own little house.
He is still a teenager feeling his freedom. I know with my D19, I've learned to allow her own mistakes. She has some friends I don't really like so much. Funny thing, now that I've washed my hands of it, allowed her to make her own choices, she doesn't seem interested in seeing those friends anymore.
Maybe our MLC H's are the same. Not dealing with a full deck and trying like mad to break free from parental control. Just maybe the best stuff happens when we let them do their "thing" no matter how dumb it may be.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson