That's up to you. I notice you tend to vacillate from wanting to work on it, to not all in a couple of posts. As everyone told you before, it is going to take alot of time and patience. More than the 3 months you've been in this.
My W didn't open up to me for 3 years. During that time she was working with her OM and it was her boss. It's going to take alot out of you, but it is up to you to determine whether you see this as a bad thing or an opportunity.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
