AnotherStander and Wonka, thank you both for replying.
I don't have much time to write a reply to all that has been said, but will give you the info about the "form".

The "form" is a paperwork called a binding financial agreement. It is issued by the solicitor of one party and is an agreement to how the assets are split. This will usually cost around $3 to $5 thousand dollars to be issued.

The W advised me way back in June she is doing this, but I did not get the actual paperwork until Mid December.

I have not held off delaying it at any time. The first time I could see my solicitor to have it signed was the 16th Jan, which I advised the W. It was signed that day, the solicitor does a standard letter and sends it off to the W's solicitor. That's it.

I have done everything the W has asked for. I have not held up or delayed any paperwork that was required of me. I have not fought or complained about any of the splitting of assets. I have not demanded money from the W. (So I didn't understand the first text where she mentioned she won't be paying me nothing). All I have done is agreed to what she wanted as part of the splitting of assets, which was very little. She did not want either houses, the new car, furniture, white goods, electrical......nothing.

I will reply later to the other things. Thanks again.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.