Some updates... I found lately H is very easy to get angry. Last night when H asked the kids to brush their teeth and go to bed, the kids still played and were slow to respond his request. H was so angry. He yelled at them, threw their toothpaste and broke it. Our older kid was kind of scared and cried, and the little one said to his dad: "dad, you need to control your anger." But H didn't listen to him; when I tried to comfort our older kid, he yelled at me as well.

I am afraid it will hurt our kids if this situation continues. I tried to talk to him about this issue, but he didn't listen to me. He claimed that that is the way how he takes care of kids. If I don't like it, he will not take care of them any more...


M 18 yrs
5 & 7 yrs old kids
H DB in 4/2013
H moved out in 11/2013