I called H out on the property taxes. He hasn't paid them and so we are not able to claim them on our taxes so I will miss out on the benefit and we won't get as much money back. He is not fooling me. This is intentional. This way he can claim them on next year's taxes as well as 2014 taxes and get more back.
He claims he never received the escrow check from the mortgage company. He said he was "on hold" with them trying to figure something out. I bet he is trying to figure something out all right.
I am giving him 24 hours to get back to me with an answer. If he doesn't, then I am calling the mortgage company myself and getting to the bottom of this.
In other "good" news my battery light went on this morning on my morning drive to work. My boss also owns an auto repair shop so she sent me over there on my lunch. Good news, the battery is fine. Bad news, the alternator isn't. So there is $400 flying out of my wallet. Good news, thanks to the fact I am not sharing a bank account with H, I have the money and don't need to put it on credit. I keep telling myself it is cheaper than buying a new car. And it's a necessary evil. So why complain about it?
Per the attorney the PMSA is done and just needs to be signed by the judge. So that's one thing off the list. My attorney said H needs to work with him on these financials and stop harassing me about it. I told the Attorney H refuses to work with him. The attorney said if that garbage continues after you move out and he is calling and texting and emailing and badgering you, we will file harassment charges on him and get a restraining order. I told the attorney I wanted to try to keep the peace until I move out. But H is rocking the boat and trying to take advantage of me. So I just need to figure out how to keep H away from me until I get out of that hell hole.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"