One baby step at a time...

[KarenR]

Hi 2ndTimeHurt,
I am sorry for your difficult situation. I have to say that you are engaging in too many dead end conversations with her. I don't blame you, as you want to talk sense into her, but they do tend to backfire. If you aren't talking to a DB coach, I suggest you do, so that you can get clarity on what is going to bring her closer and what is just going to give you more of the same. Your coach will also help you compose a last resort letter, when the time is right. Take care and I would look forward to talking to you further.