Originally Posted By: paul19510
Hi labug, I have a question about an item you helpednme with. You asked if my spouse felt. "Safe " that she felt heard. Is it fair to tell my W that I understand this and that it is anooint of growth? Or do my actions in future just speak for themselves. Its kind of a big thing to realize that she may not have felt heard.


Actions all the way, talk is cheap. smile


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss