Hi labug, I have a question about an item you helpednme with. You asked if my spouse felt. "Safe " that she felt heard. Is it fair to tell my W that I understand this and that it is anooint of growth? Or do my actions in future just speak for themselves. Its kind of a big thing to realize that she may not have felt heard.
Actions all the way, talk is cheap.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss