Ok, be that as it may the conversation could have ended when she asked bout you having the boys in May.

Yes, I will have them the week of May 1 (or whatever). Good bye.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss