Thanks guys. My lawyer has a budget set up for me. We have ran the numbers and our numbers were only $100 off from what the court commissioner set.
He came back later and apologized. It wasn't sincere. He was just trying to scare me into believing we will have to foreclose on the house if he cant reduce my payment.
So why should my kids and I run short? H has many bills that can be reduced. The directTv payment is over $200 a month. The electric bill is $300. The gas bill is another $100. His car payment is $500. His gasoline bill is through the roof. He has Sirius satellite radio and who knows what else? And I am supposed to tighten my belt? Maybe he should learn to live within his means? And who is to say even if I sign off on the support that he will be able to keep the house? It's just not a wise financial decision to keep this house.
But it's status for H. And he says he is not materialistic.
Giving it to God and waiting for Godot.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"