ditto what fly said. BTW, Kgirl, you really didn't backslide that bad. forgive yourself. Start again tomorrow and move forward. If you really think about it, you told you H that you are attracted to him and wanted to ML. I could think of a lot worse things to say to someone.
I'm learning too. move forward. Start with forgiving yourself for the slip and just grind it out
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14