Most women think (and rightfully so) that they can control men with sex. Being turned down for sex by a man is about as much of a wake up call as a woman is going to get. Whether she is trying to keep you dangling by offering sex every so often, or this really is her way of getting reconnected to you and hoping to R, at least you recognize that it's not going to work. And now she will too.
I say high five for 2S2Q. Hold out for what you deserve, not just the crumbs your W is offering.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14