Hey jackass I saw your pic! You need to keep your head up and dust yourself off sir. Have you "felt attractive" recently? Have you had your ego fed in a while? ......It needs to happen. You look great sir. I know you love your x and feel some guilt and at the very least would like some real closure- but you have zero control of that at this time. Its time to move forward! Its the only step you can take right now that might raise her interest level in you enough to open communication.
Realizing that I am a PUTZ i have recently become immersed in relationship studies focusing mostly on the art of "building attraction" - Its really good stuff. I figure its ok to do as it will be a skill I might be able to use if I R with X or If i move on..........The world has changed so much in 18 years.
Talk soon
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
I saw your pic! You need to keep your head up and dust yourself off sir. Have you "felt attractive" recently? Have you had your ego fed in a while? ......It needs to happen. You look great sir. I know you love your x and feel some guilt and at the very least would like some real closure- but you have zero control of that at this time. Its time to move forward! Its the only step you can take right now that might raise her interest level in you enough to open communication. 