FWIW, I don't see crying (in circumstances like this) as weak. It takes courage to share upsetting feelings like that, especially with someone who is careless with them. I don't think you were weak at all, 3.
And your S5. What a sweetie. And shows what a great Mom he has.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14